What feels hard at first, and why it passes
Tension: the yarn hand has to feed the yarn evenly. It feels clumsy for the first few rows and settles with practice; a smooth, light-colored medium yarn and a 5 to 6 mm hook make it easier.
Seeing where the hook goes: the top of each stitch is a small V. Light, smooth yarn shows the Vs clearly. Fuzzy, dark or very thin yarn hides them, so save those for later.
Counting: rows grow or shrink when a stitch is missed or added at the edges. A stitch marker in the first and last stitch of the row solves most of it.
A realistic first week
- Evening 1: make a slip knot and a chain of 20 that is even and loose enough to work into.
- Evening 2: work rows of single crochet on a short chain until the edges stay straight.
- Evenings 3 to 5: try half double and double crochet, and read a simple pattern line.
- By the end of the week: make a washcloth or a small square, start to finish.
When it is not you
Some things make crochet harder than it should be: a hook too small for the yarn, a splitty or fuzzy yarn, a chain pulled tight, or a pattern in UK terms read as US. If a lesson is not working, change one of those before deciding crochet is not for you.